Tuesday 11 December 2012

Why Getting Married? -by Wan Nur Hamizah



"Okay, today we are going to have public speaking.
So, some of you will have come in front talk about a certain topic.
The topic of today is about marriage. We will see how you feel to be in front of people and speak."
My English teacher spoke loudly. Luckily, I was the chosen one to speak in front of the class.
It may seems that I'm quite nervous more than other students in row at the back and maybe that is why he pointed me out.
I walked to the front anxiously. Then, I  try to speak out my mind.
"For me, there are three things that people must have in their mind before they get married and why they need to get married. If they have these things in their mind, their marriage will be fine, even if there is problem a couple will able to handle.  
First, we get married because it is a human requirement. It is a human nature that we can't deny. We need to love others and at the same time, we need also somebody to love us.  Also, marriage is the way that the God has bestowed upon us for us to fulfill our requirement. Our partner is halal(legal) for us.  
Secondly, we get married for the purposes of continuation the human being. Once you get married, you will plan to have children. Then, when your children get married, they also will plan for having children. So that, the human race will not perish from the planet's earth.
Thirdly, we get married as it is the process towards good civilization. If we trace back the history of any civilization, you will see and understand that the core of civilization is the society. And the core of society is family. So, by have the marriage, having a husband, a wife, children and nurture them to be good person, it means we built a good family and human resources that will benefit the society, the ummah."

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